“The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them.”
That’s Einstein’s way of saying that you won’t solve a problem with the same type of thinking that caused the problem. You need to look at the problem with a whole new way of thinking. With respect to a failing marriage, a new set of eyes can provide fresh perspective, and someone who has been helping couples for years may very well offer you the best chance yet at saving your marriage.
One thing is for certain and I think Einstein would agree: You won’t solve your problem by doing the same things over and over and you certainly won’t solve the problem by doing nothing!
What have you got to lose by trying something different? What have you got to lose by doing nothing?